 "I love everyone." is a passive statement. Oftentimes, it doesn't mean anything.
If you really want to create a shift in the world, love in the particular. Love the annoying neighbor. Love your ex who refuses to sign the divorce papers. Love the customer service rep with an accent, who is reading from a list of instructions of "How-to’s." Love the family member who believes you are full of shit for believing that love is the answer to all of humanity's shortcomings. Love ain't no joke. It is much more than an emotion. Love is active. Love is unconditional. When you allow love to move through you, it will break you open to more love than you have ever imagined. It will transform YOUR life. Love will lead you Home . . . back to yourself. #SoulDance #StayAwake
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 Our purpose is often birthed out of pain. Out of pain, the essence of who we are is resurrected.
If we can just be patient enough, gentle enough, compassion enough, and still enough with the process that is unfolding through the painful experience, we will find ourselves . . . our TRUE Self. But this is not the only path to finding one’s purpose. There are many paths to discovering our purpose and rediscovering who we really are. Stay awake! #SoulDance  To be a healer is to know that you have the power to transform and transcend struggles.
A healer knows that everything in physical reality is temporal - this too shall pass. Re-claim your power to heal yourself and be made new. Re-lease the old with the gift of forGIVEness, Don't wait! Do it NOW! Be FREE!!! #BeStill #BeTransformed #GatheringOfHealers #PulledByAVision  “Change is difficult.” Among the many misconceptions about change, this one is extremely common. It is also not true. “Change isn’t difficult.” Change is one of the natural occurrences in life. The misconceptions about change are rooted in a mindset gripped by fear. This fear is an emotional response to what is unfamiliar.
Your logical mind is not equipped to know what is going to “happen”; it only knows what has “happened”. The past is its reference point, and your mind wants to keep you in your comfort zone. Change nudges you out of your comfort zone. When you are going through a challenging experience, be willing to see beyond your current reality. Change is dynamic. It is a movement of energy. When you decide to move with change by taking action, the energy of fear will dissipate. This is also true for changes that you feel are forced on you. Embrace change, check in with your inner Self, and take action. You will discover that life is designed to assist you on your life journey. Change is a bridge. A bridge to move you from where you are, to where you want to be. You cannot avoid change. It is part of life. Change (pun unintended) how you see change. Shift your view on what you are capable of doing. Trust the unknown. Recognize that life is never against you. You are an extension of Life (Source Energy), here on the planet to transform limited thinking. Make that change! Be the change!!!  Love, is a powerful four letter word that can transform the hardest of conditions. Interestingly enough, in the appearance of the lack of love, every human will tell you that love is the answer to quell human ills. We all know in a deep visceral way that love is our nature, our birthright. It is common to hear on a daily basis, “What the world needs is more love,” “Love makes the world go around,” “I love this or that….,” and “I love you.” Love is peppered in our conversations. However, the concept of love seems to be difficult to understand and/or apply in all our interactions. For some, love means ownership, for others, it is a “religion”, as though it were a daily practice. In some instances, love is used to create division. It can be divisive, thereby creating polarization. Erich Fromm, author of The Art of Loving, said, “Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.” And, I completely agree. But why is it that something so simple, so natural, so familiar seems so complicated to understand or practiced as a way of life. Maybe the complication is rooted in being a “grown up.” Too often, playing the role of an “adult” tends to drain the fun, curiosity and playfulness out of life. Through societal and cultural conditioning, we erroneously believed that being serious, tough and super focused are the keys to success. Nothing can be further from the truth. True success is inspired by love. Love is essential for our growth. Love harmonizes and restores our well-being. Rather than focus on the various expressions of love, i.e., romantic, brotherly and agape, I am going to take the liberty and focus mainly on Agape/Agapeo Love aka, Unconditional Love. I call this, “True Love.”  How do you love unconditionally in a world full of conditions, rules, expectations and assumptions? This is one of the greatest challenges of being human. Unconditional love is a force. It is a “power-full” energy that dissolves anything that is unlike itself. This is why people find it challenging to love or maybe I should say, why people find it challenging to demonstrate love. Love is a verb. Love without action is just words. It is empty. To love is a choice. When love is expressed through actions, both the giver and the receiver are changed. When I say, “changed” I mean, changed, as in transformation!!! It is the kind of change that ice cubes experience when they come in contact with heat. Love is indeed fiery. The fire of love will melt you and all that is not in vibrational alignment with its high frequency.
This process of “melting” is synonymous to death. The death of the egoic (fear) mind. And in this instance, it is really a death. To experience unconditional love there must be a death - ending. What does that look like in our relationships? Well, to be loving, you must be willing to let go. Let go of judgment, blame, criticism or the need to be right. All of these hinder the flow of love. In order to know love, be love and to extend love, you must be willing to melt into a new reality. It is an act of surrender. Surrender in this case, means, yielding to your greater good. It is a willingness to be transformed. Love will soften your heart. It will change your view on life. It can and will draw people and experiences to you that inspire you to be more. You will find yourself being more in the flow of life. Even when you are growing through challenges, your will notice a sense of anchoring within your spirit. You will live in a space of perpetual calmness, joy, creativity and gratitude. Love is attractive – it attract positive relationships and transforms all that no longer serves you. Whatever comes in contact with love will change form and will be made brand new. This is true growth. In a sense, love returns you to your true self, to your childlike (innocent) nature. That self that is powerful beyond measure. Yes, to love is to take a risk… a risk to surrendering to the call of your soul… a risk to face the beloved within you and others… and a risk to melt into peace, kindness and gentleness. Paradoxically, what you perceive as risks are really your “Life-Giving” rewards. Until next time, I love you! I bless you! I appreciate you and I thank God for you!! Be Still. Listen. Be Transformed Life Coach Ade  This week is filled with extra focus on love – especially romantic love. One that is dear to the heart of many. (Pun intended). It’s a time to celebrate the ones we love, including ourselves. Unfortunately, there are those who are going to allow themselves to believe that they are not enough, good enough or conclude that there is something wrong because they don’t have a romantic partner. If you are one of them, I have something loving to say to you. Come closer, “STOP IT”! ;-) Change your focus and listen to the voice of the beloved within.
There is a love inside of all of us that is free and accepts us just as we are. This love is beckoning you. It is whispering softly, “I am here. Let me love you beyond your wildest imagination.” This love is your beloved. It is a reminder that you are the love and lover that you are looking for. So you are always in love, even if you don’t know it. Regardless of your relationship status, the truest love affair one would ever experience is the one you have with yourself. We often hear people say, “What the world needs is love.” Guess what?! Your beloved is saying to you, “What the world needs is YOU with all your divine awesomeness. You are the RePresentation of Love in action.” Through your actions of self-acceptance, kindness, compassion, service, sharing, and generosity of spirit, you re-present love to the world on a daily basis. The highest form of love is made visible when we choose to express love by being loving. When you wait or expect the world to let you know you are loved, you might be waiting for a long time; and in the long run you will find out this is a temporary expression of love. Know you are lovable and loved, unconditionally. When you tune into the frequency of your beloved, you will know it as Truth. “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”~ Rumi Take back your power. Turn your focus within and toward the fragrance of your beloved. It is the key to your liberation. Surrender to the invitation of your beloved. Feel its loving embrace. Feel its acceptance, just as you are. When you are with your beloved, you are enough. You are power-full, success-full, beauty-full. Your beloved will never leave or betray you; no matter what. Say YES to your beloved and you are in for an intoxicating love affair – Love without limits!! Until next time, I love you! I bless you! I appreciate you and I thank God for you!! Be Still. Listen. Be Transformed Life Coach Ade  How deeply do you love your family and friends? Does your love transcend belief systems? Chew on these questions for a minute.
Too often we allow what we believe to separate us. We allow beliefs to separate us from the deep human connection. We must remember that we are more than our beliefs. In the words of Rumi, “Somewhere beyond right and wrong, there is a garden. I will meet you there.” Our charge this day is to meet at the garden beyond right or wrong. This garden is the garden of Oneness, true love, soul connection, understanding and compassion. Thrive to live in this garden, beyond political divide, religious and spiritual understanding. In this garden, we can meet, face to face, mind to mind and heart to heart. In this garden, we are one. This is something to be thankful for. Gratitude brings us back to what is true, real and important. Slow down, quiet the mental chatter and sit still in the garden of oneness. Let us find one thing to be grateful for as we move through our busy days. And remember that LOVE is real. It is a harmonizing force that unites us all. Let your love be reflected through your gratitude (Great Attitude)! #BeStill #BreakOpenToLove #BeTheChange |
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